Written By Nik Koulogeorge
Dec. 23, 2022
Feb. 26, 2023
I spoke last week with a friend who I've worked with on a few projects. We touched on the subject of alumni involvement and volunteering; it was fresh on my mind from a recent post about the different forms of lifelong membership. There are many official roles for alumni within the fraternity/sorority world and field of work. Some are temporary (like facilitating at a conference) and some are annual/longer-term (alumni boards, national governors/commissioners, etc.).
The ceremonial and non-executive positions fascinate me. Parliamentarians, historians, volunteer magazine editors, and composers/song leaders. These roles are occasionally traditional/unofficial, and inter/national staff teams are rarely large enough to dedicate full-time staff to such activities. Sad!
In my experience, fraternity members crave opportunities to connect and honestly discuss their past.
In my final few years as a national office staff member, I led a small ritual and history discussion at certain national programs. They were modeled after our historian's biennial presentation at our Convention. Many members (myself included) were and are continuously inspired by our national historian's work and his attention to detail. These sessions gave more members a taste of that Convention experience; candid discussions, questions, and answers about history and ritual.
There is a similar, ritualistic reverence for an organization in other membership organizations and associations. From non-collegiate fraternities (Lions, Kiwanis) to interfraternal associations (AFA, NIC). It came up in my interview with author Jana Mathews (coming soon!), too:
We live in a very secular society. The vast majority of fraternity/sorority members are not active members of the organization, but they go through a ritual that is highly religious. They say it's not a big deal, but to what extent is a fraternity/sorority like religion or serves as a surrogate to replace something that society might have held important 100 or 200 years ago - Jana Mathews
The second line of the Preamble to the Constitution of Delta Sigma Phi is a pledge to defend the democratic systems of our nations and their subdivisions. It professes the value of liberal arts education - where one is encouraged to cross disciplines for inspiration. It's not just a Delta Sig thing.
"To guard with jealous care not only ancient rights of human freedom, in whose name we shall destroy all wrong and oppression but also the newer rights of social service, the ultimate purpose of whose ministrations shall be to give to every life" - Sigma Nu
"To be loyal to my fraternity I must gain a knowledge of it so that I may understand it. I have an obligation to understand what brotherhood means. . . I believe that in any organized society group rights and privileges are based on individual rights and privileges; that in my fraternity I possess the same rights and privileges and have the same duties as my fellow members. - Sigma Phi Epsilon
"...with integrity and devotion to moral and democratic principles, the highest responsibilities of college women." - Delta Delta Delta
Fraternities and sororities are set up like little federal republics, and my hope is to expand the tools members have to pursue democratic change. The most consequential decisions in a fraternity's or sorority's history come down to the votes of its members.
In 1914, by a vote of the members, my fraternity went from recognizing white Jewish and Christian men as members to only recognizing the latter. In the late 1950's & early 60's, by votes of the members, it reversed that decision and completely desegregated (on paper). Fraternal societies have a historic role as testing grounds for democratic debate and action. On the whole, we are interfraternally failing on both accounts.
Another thing I learned working for a national fraternity and with other inter/national fraternities is that student and alumni members feel limited in how they can affect change. Many desire genuine participation in the business of the fraternity, but feel regulated to quiet talk and rubber-stamping top-down appointments. I'm just, like, super Greek and made a blog about it - crashing figurative plates at the party.
If you're on an alumni board, you may have a vote at a fraternity conclave or convention. The same may apply to an undergraduate leader, a/n inter/national officer, an area alumni association leader, a chapter advisor, or just because you've been initiated and showed up to the meeting. Here are some tools I think could be helpful and why.
If you'd like to help build them, contact me on Twitter or via the contact page:
The Petition & Legislation Guide attached to this post can serve as a template for proposing business items at a meeting or for organizing a petition within or between chapters. Think of one petition that people would love to sign, like a petition to thank your founders (sidebar: I think founders are kind of fetishized, but it's like an 'End the Fed' poster at a Ron Paul rally - effective whipping agent)
Compiled and comparable public documents (taxes, constitutions, etc.). Fraternity leaders agree that this information is important. Part of the allure of NIC 2.0 was that it would gather and publish more data to help fraternity leaders make decisions. That data is often kept close to the chest, but there is no reason why members can't compile and compare publicly accessible information.
For example - I started collecting data from fraternity tax filings over 3 years, including membership dues, risk fees, and insurance expenditures. Information that could help members present well-informed questions or positions. (see & comment on Google Docs)
I wrote this article after collecting "scholarship and grant" expenditure data from fraternity foundation tax filings & this article about finding and using 990 forms.
Public analysis of ritual and ceremony. It's not exactly groundbreaking to suggest that secrecy inhibits understanding within and between our organizations. But there are public ceremonies, values, and publications. These may only be discussed during a member's first few weeks in a fraternity, if at all. So take a stab at deciphering your fraternity's creed or preamble and share it somewhere.
You might think it overkill to collect and compile this kind of information. But consider that 35 inter/national fraternities brought in ~$140 million in revenue per year tracked. Add sorority revenue, vendor company revenue, and local council/IFC revenue and you may start to see fraternities and sororities as relevant stepping stones for aspiring civic leaders.
Greek Life leaders call a fraternity a "good actor" if it says the right things and purchases the right programming. The data we have to confirm that a fraternity is a "good actor" is exclusively self-reported. If we know what a fraternity pays in insurance relative to its size; however, we get an idea of its assessed risk. Furthermore, we can more accurately compare its risk relative to its peers. We can monitor changes over time and plot policy/programming changes along a trend line. With tax and budget data, fraternity members can make a better case for vendor contract transparency, for example.
You may often hear about threats to democracy if you tune into the news media. These threats are often tied to particular movements or people, but the universal tool to threaten democracy is a decline or smothering of democratic decision-making. Democracy requires civilian participation. A fraternity serves as a terrific way to sharpen one's democratic leadership skills.
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